Many of my teachers have designed relevant SEL lessons that  I wish to showcase their excellent work.  In this page, i will just place only the website chosen and the higher-order thinking questions that they designed to enhance our children's social-emotional competencies.  I believe these activities will empower  teachers and parents to enhance the social-emotional competencies of those in their care.  I trust that you will find them helpful so that in time you can generate your own social-emotional learning questions.
Graciousness by Aw
Siow Hwee and Charles Chang Chin Chiew
Clipping Nails in MRT http://static.stomp.com.sg/site/servlet/linkableblob/stomp/250160/thumbnail/woman_in_ungracious_pose_as_she_clips_toe_nails-thumbnail.jpg
Dirty Dishes at a Hawker
Centre http://www.stomp.com.sg/talkback/images/ggm.jpg
Poor Seating Habits at Lectures http://media.photobucket.com/image/simgapore%20ungracious/notyourusualshit/misc269.jpg
  
           
 
 A Mother’s Concern by
Gary Lim 
Mom’s Song  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXgoJ0f5EsQ
 
 
 
 
 
  
  
 
 
  
  
 
 
  
  
 
 
  
  
 
 
  
  
 
 
  
  
 
  
 
  
  
Poor Seating Habits at Lectures http://media.photobucket.com/image/simgapore%20ungracious/notyourusualshit/misc269.jpg
SE Competencies 
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Questions 
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Self-Awareness 
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1.     Write
  down how you feel after seeing the photographs and videos. 
2.     What if
  your good friend or family member did that? How would you feel about him /
  her? 
3.     Write
  down a scenario that you have encountered (locally or overseas) such that
  graciousness in the incident impacted you. 
4.     What are
  the values that make a gracious society? Why? 
5.     What are
  the SEL competencies that are lacking in us as a nation? Why? 
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Social
  Awareness 
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6.     How
  would you feel if your friends commented that you are ungracious? 
7.     What are
  the implications to Singapore if every citizen is ungracious? 
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Self-Management 
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8.     Imagine
  you are in MRT occupying a seat and you are very tired, would you offer your
  seat to a pregnant lady or an elderly person? Why?  
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Relationship
  Management 
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9.     What are
  some of the skills you will need to influence others to be gracious? How do
  you go about doing it? 
10.   How
  would you respond if everyone reserved seats at the busy hawker centre and
  you couldn’t find a seat after buying your food.  
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Responsible
   
Decision-Making 
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11.   What do
  you think are other ungracious behaviours that can improve on?  Explain why it
  is important to improve on the area  that you mentioned. 
12.   How do
  you think you can play a part in creating a more gracious society? 
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SE
  Competencies 
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Questions 
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Self-Awareness 
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1.      How do
  you feel after viewing the video? 
2.      What did
  you learn from watching the video? 
3.      How well
  do you communicate with your parents/caregivers? 
4.      How well
  do you think your parents understand you and; how well do you understand
  them? 
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Social
  Awareness 
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5.      How are
  the words in the video show a mother’s care?  
6.      How does
  your mother show her care? 
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Self-Management 
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7.      What
  would you do to prevent your mother from repeating her daily instructions? 
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Relationship 
Management 
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8.      How well
  do you respond to your parents’ instructions? 
9.      How do
  you think you can make communication between you and your parents/caregivers
  better? 
10.    If your
  friend tells you that s/he cannot communicate with his / her parents, what
  advice would you give? 
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Responsible
  Decision-Making 
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11.    Would
  you ever tell a white lie so as not to worry your parents? In what
  situations, would you? Would you not? 
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Are you as Resilient as Nick Vijici?   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V5D_9gklCi
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SE Competencies  
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Questions  
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Self – Awareness 
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What are some qualities of Nick that help him
  to be resilient?  
  
Do you have some of Nick’s qualities?   
  
If not, how do you think you can develop them? 
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Social Awareness 
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How do you think your friends feel when
  they achieve poor results or are facing adversity? 
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Self – Management  
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How can you cope with your personal
  obstacles? 
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Relationship Management 
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How would you assist your friends who face
  difficulties in their studies? 
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Responsible Decision-Making 
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What responsible steps can you take to
  improve your resilience to cope with adversities? 
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